Foreplay sometimes takes a back seat once you are in a long-term relationship but foreplay plays a very important role in your sex life—no matter how long you have been together.
And believe it or not, guys love foreplay as much as women. Here are some ways to drive her crazy before you are even in bed.
Slow your roll. Take your time and whatever foreplay you are engaging in don’t rush. This is bound to drive you both wild and that is the whole point.
Massages can and DO lead to sex. Well, if you do it right. My girlfriend thinks I give the worst back massages and describes them as downright painful. Instead, I checked out a few videos of foot massages online and mastered the perfect foot massage. It’s less strenuous than going to town on someone’s back and if you have a foot fetish (which I do) it’s a turn-on for both of you.
Include her in the dirty talk. I am really into talking dirty but sometimes I realize I am having a one-way conversation about what I want to do to her without mentioning how hot her ass is or how good she smells.
Kiss more. Have a good ol’ fashioned makeout session on the sofa focusing on just kissing. I learned this one night by accident. We were having a Netflix and Chill night and we just went for it on the sofa. Of course, being a guy, I stopped kissing her a bit earlier than she liked.
Take charge. And by taking charge I don’t mean caveman style. Don’t be timid about what you want to do to her. One of the biggest turnoffs according to my girlfriend is when I ask her, “do you like this?” Instead, own that light smack to the ass.
Don’t neglect the rest of her body. It goes without saying that you should spend some time stimulating her via nipples or clitoris, but soft, gentle strokes along her sides, arms or buttocks goes a looong way—for both of you.
Last but not least, ask her what she likes. This is a question that most women are dying to be asked whether it applies to sex or sushi.