New Study Shows How Often We Think About Sex and With Whom We Share our Sexual Adventures

by Angela Cavallari Walker

New Study Shows How Often We Think and Share our Sexual Adventures

A new study conducted by OnePoll for the beauty and bedroom accessories company, Pure Romance asked American men and women how often they think about sex. Additionally, the study found that women share their own sexual exploits as much as men. 

Overall, Americans admitted to thinking about sex on average eight times a day. And turns out, women think about sex more than most guys realize. In fact, women think about sex seven times a day while guys think about sex nine times a day. 

Of those surveyed, 65 percent were chill about sharing the deets on their sex life with the average man or woman sharing what happens between the sheets with up to four people. 

So….who the heck are Americans sharing their sex lives with?

According to the survey we are sharing our sex life with:

61% spouse/significant other 

60% best or close friends

40%  friends 

28%  co-workers

26% roommates

The first stat makes sense given that you should be discussing sex with your girlfriend and we all share our sex lives with our closest or casual friends. The roommates and co-workers were a little odd. Unless you work with your best bud, you shouldn’t be sharing your sex life with your co-workers and your roommates know what you are up to sexually or at least what hook-ups you’ve had in a week. I mean, why would only 26% share with their roommates…they know already. 

Taking into account the percentages of people we talk about our sex lives with, Americans on average will share their sexual accounts with up to four different people. Not to go all Freudian but 17% of men share their sex life with their mothers and 20% of men share their sexual adventures with their dads. Personally speaking, I have never shared any sexual details with my mother and I think it’s downright gross. 

Who do you typically tell about your sex life?

Guys Still Expect Women to Keep a Clean Home Says New Studies

by Angela Cavallari Walker

Guys Still Expect Women to Keep a Clean Home Says New Studies

Not one but three recently-published studies found that men still want women to keep a clean house but the same is not expected of men. 

After (admittedly) only skimming all three studies, I wanted to share my perspective as a guy that keeps a tidy house and why I still hold women to the same standard and can’t understand why women don’t do the same to men.

Let’s start by going way back to the mid-90s. At the time I was still in college and busting my ass waiting tables at night. One evening after finishing my shift I picked up a girl that had what I call, “catnip.” She wasn’t pretty but she had a sexy vibe about her, a great figure and was super uninhibiated—all turn-ons for guys. 

One drink led to another and I took her back to my place. I hadn’t planned on getting laid that night so my apartment was not picked-up but not filthy either. I might have had some dishes in the sink and maybe a pair of dirty boxers on the floor but nothing had really accumulated. 

However, the piece of shit car that I drove her home that night was so clean you could eat off the floor. I remember her asking for a drink and asking to slip off to use the bathroom. As I fumbled through my nightstand trying to locate a condom, she emerged from the bathroom wearing nothing but a smile. It was a night of some of the best sex I have ever had. 

This, of course, led to another hook-up night. This time, she picked me up in her ride—a glorified sports car for the working class, the Geo Storm. 

I opened the door only to be hit with the pungent odor of what smelled like cat piss. But if that wasn’t enough to shock me, the floor of the car could not be seen because it was covered in compressed piles of old convenience-store cups, fast-food chain wrappers, and petrified french fries. The cloth seats also had so many stains that it was impossible to figure out the actual color. Assuming those stains might contain urine, I asked for a napkin to sit on. She obliged and fished out a stack of napkins from her glove compartment which appeared to have deep scratches from a rabid animal. 

The backseat was even worse. When I asked her how long she had had the car, she said it was less than a year old. I was already turned off before we even got to her apartment. My mind raced to wonder how nasty her place would be if her car looked like this. My suspicions and fears were confirmed.  In a metal cage in the corner, her wildlife aggressively tried to escape its confines to either attack me or more likely, take another piss. 

Turns out, she had a pet raccoon and the smell in her place matched the smell in her car.  Like her car, every surface was covered in discarded take-out boxes which made sense since she ran out of clean dishes and cookware which sat in the sink with the memory of old meals still stuck to its insides. 

This was not my proudest moment but while she readied herself in the bathroom, I bolted out of there, tracked down a payphone and called a buddy for a ride. 

I’m sure my actions hurt her enough to share the story with her friends over coffee or a cocktail but I was seriously concerned that I was going to catch an STD (thankfully, we had used a condom earlier). This is an extreme case but from that day forward—a made it a point to never date a woman that keeps a filthy car and to make sure that I never let my place get that disgusting either. I mean, if that was enough to turn me off to amazing sex, then I wondered how women would feel about that dirty pair of boxers or the fact that I hadn’t given two craps about simply rinsing food from my dishes.

To this day, I am a bit of a neat freak and I do most of the cleaning. My girlfriend appreciates this immensely and it makes our relationship much better.

Women should be holding men to a higher standard of cleanliness than they do and men should not have to feel like dickheads for not hooking up with a girl that doesn’t have enough sense to run a dishwasher or keep her floors clean enough that you can see the original color. 

Women (and this is just my opinion) typically have a harder time living with dirty boxers on the floor or whiskers clinging to toothpaste droppings in the sink, but you may have to start leaving it there for us guys to clean. Believe me, we will eventually cave because no one wants to look at that crap long term. 

As for guys, it’s time we all held ourselves to the same standard of cleanliness that is expected of our girlfriends and wives because no one wants to live like it’s Joe’s Apartment. 

In fact, another study published last year found that guys that bother to help out with household chores and grocery shopping had better sex and that’s a study we can all get behind.

New Study Shows Fewer Guys Are Wrapping it Up in Spite of Rising STDs

New Study Shows Less Guys Are Wrapping it Up in Spite of Rise of STDs

The amount of chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis are at an all-time high right now, according to data from the CDC or Centers for Disease Control. That means that “the clap” is also at an all-time high and that is nothing to applaud about. 

It should also come as no surprise that those numbers are higher because less-and-less guys are wrapping it up or using a condom. 

I was in college in the mid1990s and condoms and safe sex was everywhere. In fact, I remember going to clubs and there were baskets of condoms that someone was usually handing out or they were just sitting on the bar for the taking. 

Then again, the AIDS epidemic was very real back then and I was more fearful of contracting HIV then chlamydia but then again, I didn’t want to get that either. I lost my virginity using a condom on prom night in high school. 

It was years before I went hot-doggin’ without a condom. I was a senior in college before I got the nerve to go without one and I had been in a steady relationship for a few months. We also both got tested together and before we hopped into bed.

Now, the sensation is better. There is no denying that and it’s definitely more intense but the idea of dealing with getting tested, contracting herpes or experiencing the pain and burning while peeing then showing up in a clinic with a drippy Johnson is not worth it. 

I’ve managed to dodge the STD bullet thanks to condoms and for those continue to have casual sex with several partners here are the most common symptoms of STDs in guys:

Blisters on or around the penis.

Spots, bumps or lesions on the penis

Discharge (clear, white, or yellow)

Oozing from the tip of the penis (thick or thin)

Painful urination

Painful ejaculation

Itching on the tip of the penis

OR, you might not have any symptoms and you are spreading this shit to every girl you’re sleeping with which means you are also spreading it to other guys. One thing I can tell you, all of those symptoms will certainly mess up your sex life if you get them which is much worse than wearing a condom.

Nice Rack: The Easiest Way to Prepare and Cook a Rack of Lamb

How to Properly Cook Rack of Lamb

One of the most impressive meals you can make for a date or that group of people that enjoy and share food porn is a rack of lamb. 

If you’ve been intimidated by this dish, then we’ve got a recipe that will wow even the most discriminating foodies be it your girlfriend, date or those aforementioned food snobs. 

Easy Recipe for Rack of Lamb:


1 rack of lamb (typically around 1-2 lbs)

Kosher salt

Fresh cracked pepper 

Fresh bunch of rosemary

Fresh bunch of thyme

Fresh chives 


Stoneground mustard 


Pre-heat your oven to 475 degrees F.  On a large baking pan, line with parchment paper and place your rack of lamb on it. Add a dash of your salt and pepper to every surface of your lamb. In a small mixing bowl, mix about a table spoon of mayo, a tablespoon of your stoneground mustard. Freshly chop approximately 1-2 tablespoons of your herbs and mix well with your may/mustard mix. Keep in mind that rosemary is very strong so be careful how much you use. 

Using a spatula, spread your mixture all over your rack of lamb. You are looking for a even coat around the meat. Bake for approximately 10 minutes. Then, drop the temp to around 400 degrees F and bake another 10-12 minutes. Immediately remove from oven and allow to rest for another 10 minutes. Cut and serve on a large platter and garnish with any leftover herbs to impress. 

5 of the Coolest Car and Truck Gadgets Every Guy Needs Now  

5 of the Coolest Car and Truck Gadgets Every Guy Needs Now 

When was the last time you had access to the coldest drinks while tailgating from your car or truck or have been able to display your favorite sports team lighted on your trailer hitch? Well, you can now.

This week, The Manscape Project is all about those kick-ass car gadgets every guy needs in his car, truck or SUV.

12V Portable Auto Refrigerator and Fridge Freezer

Save your battery power and your drinks from getting warm. This auto refrigerator has it all—the right amount of insulation so that your compressor uses less energy and offers battery protection. Lightweight and durable, it’s perfect for tailgating, off-roading and camping. Available on and starts at $925.

Tail Titan Illuminated Hitch Covers

Whether you bleed blue or are a die-hard Noles’ fan these illuminated hitch covers have got all your favorite sports teams…well, covered as well. Choose from professionally licensed, NCAA, NFL, MLB or NBA logos. Assembly is easy and plugs into any standard hitch assembly—BOOM!  Available on $149.99

Marvel Auto Coaster Set 

Keep your car clean protect it like a hero with this set of Marvel Auto Coaster set featuring Captain America, Hulk and Iron Man. Available on $5.99

Scouts Mobile Mud Room 

Never worry about bring man’s best friend along with you and letting him get a little muddy on the trails. This full-on canine containment means that you can keep the dirtiest of dog(s) while keeping your car or truck clean. Unique protective features such as protective side flaps, waterproof coating and a non-scratch, soft underside. Clip and zip when you are done. Also works great for ski gear or even bringing home bags of mulch or dirt. Available on  $69.99

Car Seat Headrest Coat Hanger from ShellKingdom 

Never worry about a wrinkled-up dress shirt or suit jacket. This handy car accessory easily attaches to the back of your headrest without slipping or sliding off the way that a normal coat hanger does. It also adapts to any style of size of clothing so you never have to worry about your clothing dropping on the floor. Available on $16.99


Avoid These Foods that Screw With Your Sexual Drive and Performance 


One of my favorite things to talk about in this blog is what boosts sexual performance and sex drive. But hey, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure, so today’s blog is going to cover what you should avoid putting in your body at all costs.

Here is a list of foods and technically, drinks that will screw up your sexual drive in the worst way. The first one is a no-brainer for any guy that has experienced liquor dick but the rest might surprise you.


Well, too much alcohol which for most guys means more than three drinks. If you plan on hooking up or having sex later in the evening, cut yourself off. Excessive alcohol can cause premature ejaculation and erectile difficulties also known as the inability to “keep it up.”


Let’s say you’re at an asian eatery and enjoying some sushi and decide to have some soy sauce with your meal. In moderation, sure. However, skip the edamame. Soy has high levels of estrogen in it which is not what you want in your body as a guy.


That’s right, those breath mints you are choking down that contain menthol are not doing you any favors. Menthol is known to cause a drop in testosterone which will do you no favors in the love-making department. Instead, opt for the flavors that don’t have mint—there are plenty.


It might be tempting to drink coffee so that you will be more awake and able to do it all night long but in reality like having alcohol—excessive amounts could lead to nervousness and your ability to perform.

Diet drinks and sodas

Sure, you want to avoid sugar but you also want your soda. Most diet beverages contain the artificial sweetener, aspartame, which messes with serotonin levels which mess with your libido (hers too.)


If your normal go-to at the movies for candy is licorice sub it out for a mint-free confection. Licorice contains glycyrrhizin (try saying that one time) which naturally occurs in the fun snack but also naturally inhibits a guy’s libido.


It’s a bland-ass cereal that leads to bland-ass sex which is the theory behind the man who invented it in the first place. Dr. John Harvey Kellogg decided that spicy foods would be no bueno for men since it inflamed their sexual desires, so he decided to make this awful-tasting cereal. We now know that sex is actually good for your health, so move onto something with taste and fuego.

Now that you know that you shouldn’t eat, here is what you should eat to boost your sexual stamina and drive. You’re welcome.

6 Vitamins to Boost Your Sex Drive and Stamina

6 Vitamins to Boost Your Sex Drive and Stamina

If you happen to be reading this particular blog, you are no doubt in search of how to boost your libido and stamina while between the sheets. No one likes a bad performance, so we’ve compiled a list of the vitamins and supplements that you need to add to your diet for a more lasting sexual impact. Plus, these vitamins are ACTUALLY beneficial for your overall health.

Before we get to the good stuff, here are a couple of disclaimers. 1. Vitamin products are considered dietary supplements by the FDA and are regulated as such.  2. Before beginning ANY new diet or exercise program or regimen you should ALWAYS consult with your physician first.

–Vitamin A.   We might as well start A to Z and Vitamin A is the right place to boost your sex hormone production. Vitamin A aids in stable reproductive cycles in women and sperm production in men.

–Vitamin B3.    Did somebody say energy? If you are short on stamina you will get the burst of energy that you need with vitamin B3 including a rush of blood flow throughout your WHOLE body. Plus, it aids in skin and nerve health.

–Vitamin B6.    Speaking of estrogen and testosterone, this vitamin helps produce more red blood cells, dopamine and serotonin. If you do have issues with sperm count, Vitamin B6 is the supplement for you!

–Vitamin B12.    We are not even out of the ‘B’ vitamins just yet, and the best is yet to come. B12 is known for enhancing sex drive and penile erection thanks to enlarging something else—blood vessels!

–Vitamin C.    If you’re having trouble getting in the mood Vitamin C is your supplement of choice plus it helps with joints, stress and your immune system.

–Vitamin E.   In terms of vitamins, this one is considered the most beneficial to your sex life. A steady diet of Vitamin E helps heighten blood flow to your genitalia AND can make you look younger. Double win!

Check out this list of the 11 Best Foods to Boost Your Health and Stamina 


New Study Explains Why Some People Turn into A’Holes When They Drink


We’ve all got that one friend or as I like to call them, party asses. You invite them out for a few beers. Things are going well maybe you even decide to order a few appetizers and start texting more friends to see if they want to meet up with you.

You think you are having a great debate over whether or not Heather Locklear still has fake tits. All of the sudden, shit gets personal and you find yourself defending anything in your buddy’s path from why you wear patterned socks to whether or not you should punch your boss in the face.

The night ends abruptly because if it doesn’t it will end badly. You’re scratching your head trying to figure out why he gets this way and what the hell did you say to set him off again. Turns out, there is a reason behind it and it’s more than just those beers he threw back.

A new study released by the University of New South Wales in Australia suggests that just a couple of drinks can interfere with your prefrontal cortex—also known as the part of the brain that keeps you from doing something stupid or turning into a dickhead for no reason.

Using an MRI, researchers looked at the brain activity of 50 healthy, young guys after they had two vodka drinks. They were looking for blood flow to the prefrontal cortex. For those that did not have the cocktails the blood flow was greater to that area. And just to be sure they had them engage with a computer game that was competitive.

So yeah, the next time you are out and you see this coming on show them this blog in a non-threatening way, of course.

President’s Day: 12 Badass and Manly Facts About our Past Presidents 

12 Badass and Manly Facts About our Past Presidents

This coming Monday marks President’s Day and I thought it was a good idea to remind everyone that the holiday is not about furniture sales. Instead, I have dug up the most badass facts of our country’s past POTUS’.

John F. “Jack” Kennedy.  The Kennedys have a long political dynasty and a long history of hooking up with the hottest women in the world. In fact, FBI tapes later revealed that he didn’t just hook up with Marilyn Monroe. He was known to have bedded Angie Dickinson, Marlene Dietrich, Jayne Mansfield, lots of strippers and pretty much tapped every ass working in The White House.

Lyndon Baines Johnson.  LBJ was not nearly as good looking as JFK but he certainly had his share of hookups as well. He was reportedly smarter and more discreet about it and had an alert system set up in the Oval Office so he wouldn’t be literally caught with his pants down.

Thomas Jefferson.   Jefferson was notorious for having affairs with his female slaves. He reportedly carried on a thirty-eight-year affair with Sally Hemings. Interestingly enough, Sally was not just his slave but was the half-sister of his deceased wife.

Martin Van Buren.   Van Buren was the eighth President of the United States and served from 1837-1841. Like most Presidents he decided to document his legacy while in office by writing an autobiography. Some have speculated that he did not like his wife of 12 years after failing to mention her zero times in his autobiography.

John Tyler.    If you thought JFK had stamina, he had nothing on our 10th POTUS. Tyler won the title for fathering the most kids. After having eight kids with his first wife, he went to have seven with his second wife and he was in his 70s by the time his last kid was born. Busy guy.

Ronald Reagan.   When you think of the eighties it’s impossible not to remember President Ronald Reagan. While he was still an actor, he won an award for the Most Nearly Perfect Male Figure. Not sure if that honor still exists today, but way to show those guns!

John Quincy Adams.   Adams enjoyed the many pleasures and luxuries in The White House. His favorite was quite simple, he loved to skinny dip in the Potomac every morning around 5 to relieve the stress associated with the job.

Andrew Jackson.    Jackson had quite the reputation while in office. In spite of his popularity he was the first President that an assassination attempt was made on and after the gun misfired, he chased the perp with a walking stick. He also participated in over 100 duels. One duel left a man dead and several others happened all in the name of defending his wife’s good name after she reportedly married him without divorcing from her first husband. He spent most of his life with two bullets still lodged in his body—one on his chest and one in his arm. That’s pretty badass.

Gerald Ford.   Believe it or not, President Ford put himself through college working as a model and later as a forest ranger at Yellowstone. Basically, a real-life Ranger Rick.

Calvin Coolidge.   Coolidge was a bit of a prankster. His favorite stunt was to set off all the call buttons on his desk and then either hide or run like hell. After everyone lost their minds looking for him, he would jump out and declare that he wanted to make sure they were working.

Warren Harding.   This 29th President of the United States liked to take risks which usually involved gambling. During one of the many heated games of poker, he bet The White House china and lost.

John Adams.  Our second President was no stranger to playing dirty politics. When running against Jefferson his red meat and propaganda included rape, murder and incest if they voted for Jefferson instead of Adams. In the end, they became best bros and both died on the same day and just hours apart on July 4th.

One last fun fact about ALL OUR Presidents: not one of them was a single child. 

Could McDonald’s Fries be the Answer to Baldness

Could McDonald's Fries be the Answer to Baldness

A new study claims that McDonald’s salty, iconic fries could curb or at least help with hair loss and male baldness, according to Japanese researchers.

The study claims that it’s not the salt or potato but the oil that the fries are cooked in are the active ingredient. Apparently, some miracle method contains a chemical called dimethylpolysiloxane which is…you guessed it in the oil of those delicious fries at one of the world’s most-recognizable fast food joints.

A little known fact is that dimethylpolysiloxane is also found in silly putty, breast implants and that caulk you use on the tub.

Before you run out and start chowing down on some fries this study has only been tested on rats and President Donald Trump is on a steady diet of McDonald’s cuisine and still has to fight hair loss and maintain his quiff with the prescription drug Propecia. And making matters worse was an embarrassing video that surfaced this week of President Trump’s extent of hair loss. 

In fact, I have fought the good fight of male pattern baldness and whether I should throw in the towel on my hair. After a month on Rogaine, I found out that I would rather be bald than not be able to sexually perform at my peak. You can read the whole Rogaine story here

Unless you have the metabolism to support it, avoid eating shitty fries on a daily basis or you could be battling baldness and a big gut. For now, watch for the rats staying on or leaving the sinking ship.